I would posit that the English language is just fine, and that the correct term we’re really searching for is “being an asshole.” Unneeded explanation happens to everyone, not just to women, as any man anywhere could attest to.
Since I want to see women advocating for liberty, and I really do want to see us all getting along, I want to take the time to explain the phenomenon, how it plagues our movement, and what we can do to root it out.